Last week, I wasn't feeling well at all. I even threw up. It reminded me of when I was pregnant (don't worry, I'm not. I just wanted to add in that I don't know how people take care of a little baby when they're pregnant with the next one!). I could barely get out of bed because any moving made my nausea that much worse. I was still able to nurse as long as I stayed hydrated. However, I couldn't take care of a baby like this.
I looked online and it seems like most people call for help. I'm lucky that I have a husband who was able to take the day off to take care of the baby while I tried to sleep all day. Other than being woken up every two hours for a feeding, I think it worked out pretty well. I also liked that he was able to see what it was like to be me for a day. It's not exactly a walk in the park, even if you are feeling well. It's hard work, especially with a lack of sleep!
My advice to you if you are sick is to take it easy as much as you can. If your kids are older, maybe you can get them to play quietly next to you in bed or at least explain you aren't feeling well. If you have a baby like I do (or impossible kids), don't feel bad calling in help. A friend, family member, or even a neighbor could maybe come to your rescue if your spouse is unavailable.
If nobody can come, some people mentioned that sometimes their babies seemed to know they weren't feeling well and behaved better or took more naps. I suppose worse case scenario, you just do it. It may take you longer to feel better but sometimes you don't have a choice.
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